A fine line separates Judgment from Constructive Criticism.  Sometimes, I find it so hard to walk that tightrope.  I admit that I do lose balance.

For others, I will try to not throw that first stone as I do know, oh so well, that I have so many faults that need attention and improvement.  In turn, I pledge to receive the judgment and criticism thrown my way as Blessings, maybe painful or disputable, but without becoming defensive.  Ouch.  Judgment and Constructive Criticism vary only by the perspectives of the players.

Can I change the stones to compliments?   Hmmm…”Thank you for your input, and may I tell you that you have such accurate aim?”   Take a breath, reconsider… let it go.  Instead of stone throwing, I rock!  And, I’ll go try to clean up my messes now.

“I have had a gracious plenty.  Any more would be a superfluous abundance.”    – Minnie Pearl Bell

If you have received, then give thanks.  From a simple prayer of Thanks for God’s Blessings to a considerate Thank You to anyone who shares kindness with you.  For an opened door to enter a building to an opened door to a new adventure, if there was a gesture of assistance, say Thank You.

Before you ask for something, be sure you have acknowledged gifts, tangible and intangible, with Thanks.  Before you dwell on what you want or what you think you need, count your Blessings and give Thanks.  A roof over your head, food to eat, good health, clothing and protection from elements and harm – all are blessings for which you can celebrate with Thanksgiving.