Identifying your personal filters. Self-exams begin.

Your Logittude is affected by your personal filters.  Like the “frame of reference” of the standard model of communication, your filters are those intangible feelings, attitudes, impressions and knowledge that you bring with you into the moment.  Typically, you are blissfully unaware that you are a carrier of these elements, but there is no escaping these clinging, moment-altering aspects of you.

You bring with you all of your interpersonal encounters, your emotional states and memories of settings and situations in your past and your current preconceived expectations of the moment.  Anticipation of pleasure or conflict or confusion from lack of knowledge all affect the moment you are entering.

To approach Logittude spend a little effort at examining your filters in general.  Do you carry with you lessons from your childhood on how to react and behave?  Do you practice consideration for others or evaluation of yourself already?  Did you have a big family that interacted well or not-so-well that still influences how you approach other people and situations?  Are you receptive to other attititudes and opinions contrary to your own?  Do you have any clues about why you may be shy or outgoing?  This list is unlimited and the answers may continue to astound you once you get going.

The time is Rights for success.

There are those who try, excel and succeed in spite of their hardships and history or oppression by others and outside forces.  There are those who stagnate, fall back and fail because of various reasons.  There are those who celebrate the opportunities to make their own successes or failures.  Others will throw blame and demand to be given what others work hard to achieve.  Who are you?  Where are you going to go next?

Does your Logittude find you Shining today?  Choose your path.  Let your history be a compass to your best destination.

We are blessed to live in a country with the personal freedoms to excel if we recognize and seize the opportunities that God lays before us.  No one says it will be easy, but you will never know the possibilities until you try.  Small decisions can lead you in the right direction, little steps at a time if necessary.

Pack your baggage.

Where your Logittude is now and wherever it is going, you cannot help but take your baggage with you.  All those bits and pieces of good and evil and trivia and treasure are jumbled up in that mystical brain of yours that filter your experiences.  Like a sieve that already has remnants of your history mixed up and clogged into the openings through which all that comes next must pass.  Lovely.

Although you can’t completely dump that baggage, you can learn to store it away and use it only when needed.  Recognizing what you are hauling around is a great accomplishment.  Recognizing the useless junk you are hauling around is magnificent.  Learn from experience, but don’t let experiences control your future to your detriment.

De-clutter.  Lighten your load.  Evaluate and reconsider.  Each day is a fresh start on your journey if you start fresh.  Any good journey is improved by good planning, which includes smart packing. Take only what you need, and recycle the other stuff wisely.

Class Beginnings. What’s the plan? Got a map?

Students need clues on what to expect from the Teacher.  Teachers need to tell the Students what is expected for success in their course.  What’s the plan, the syllabus, the calendar or end-goal of the educational interaction?

The course schedule is a skeleton on which the course and student expectations are built.  If the Teacher provides a syllabus or course outline, the student has the equivalent of a map for the journey.  Expectations and directions are shared and the student-teacher team develops.

Students:  USE this information wisely.  Start now to anticipate what you must do to succeed in this course by knowing what comes ahead.  If you were traveling across the country in a car, you would better prepare yourself by looking at a map or gazetter to know the best highways, straightest and shortest routes and see where mountains or waterways might interupt your directions.  The syllabus and course calendar is just such a map.  If you want to be your best in the task of completing a course, study this map first and plan accordingly.

Teachers:  Direct your students with more than breadcrumbs to lead the way.  Show some method to the madness of education.  Start with a simple but accurate and complete plan, calendar and preview of what is to come.  What do you want the student to take away from your class daily or at the completion of the course that is worth the time and effort of the journey?

The Challenge for Teachers – Give the Students a Big Picture view before the class is underway, with a map and expectations for a successful journey.

The Challenge for Students – Figure it out anyway if you are not spoonfed.  Ask questions to determine expectations and know what the goals for successful completion will be.  Anticipate and become your own best teacher as you go through the course.  If you teach yourself and prepare what you can as if you had to teach someone else, you will be as successful as you can possibly be for this course.  Good luck.

Time passages…

Is today the tomorrow you expected yesterday?

Even with the best intentions and a fresh desk calendar, time slips pass without my permission.  What I want to do, what I have to do, what I need to do and what I actually attempt to do are not always the same lists.  Dutifully, at the end of (most) days, I move my list of intentions to the next day’s page.  My repetitive attempts at lists and reminders at least keep me aware of intentions before they slip away, out of sight and out of mind.  Yet, here I am on another beautiful Sunday.

Is tomorrow the future you want to be planning today?  Why not give it a shot?  What can you do today to be one step closer to the future you really want?  Lists are laughed at, but they do make an idea real in the sense you can see it, read it, revise it and come back to it.  Lists do not have to be reasonable.  Mine contains realistic entries and ambitious fantasies, but why not?  It is my list after all, so I can put what I want.

Today, I have general maintenance tasks, like laundry, dusting, decluttering, but I also have grand listings, like discover a million-dollar idea, create works of art and replace my bathtub.  Realistically, I am going to be at my desk working on business (I do the management of our family’s business from my desk here) and cheering on the Houston Texans’ attempt at winning a football playoff game.  Odds are good for the business work and maybe some laundry, but bathroom renovations are highly unlikely.  Any million-dollar inspirations will be left to serendipity.

Time will tell.

Plodding your course…

Not a spelling error or typo, but my reflections on a day like today – plodding through the day.  Gradually, step by step, I have progressed through tasks as necessary.  Redirected by recollections of tasks missed or needs outside the intended path set by my list of last evening, I have continued to plod deliberately along.  The evening’s list for my morning’s endeavors will include all those items missed today with those needed for tomorrow.  Logittude and necessity have charted my course, but I have plodded the path.  Sweet dreams and shining tomorrows.

Judgment. Just a stone’s throw away.

A fine line separates Judgment from Constructive Criticism.  Sometimes, I find it so hard to walk that tightrope.  I admit that I do lose balance.

For others, I will try to not throw that first stone as I do know, oh so well, that I have so many faults that need attention and improvement.  In turn, I pledge to receive the judgment and criticism thrown my way as Blessings, maybe painful or disputable, but without becoming defensive.  Ouch.  Judgment and Constructive Criticism vary only by the perspectives of the players.

Can I change the stones to compliments?   Hmmm…”Thank you for your input, and may I tell you that you have such accurate aim?”   Take a breath, reconsider… let it go.  Instead of stone throwing, I rock!  And, I’ll go try to clean up my messes now.

Sunday morning – Counting Blessings

Today, when I could have slept late, God woke me up earlier than usual.  The house was quiet;  the day is overcast and a bit misty; and I am warm and safe and without fear.  For this sense of overwhelming security, I am thankful.

My family members will gather today in various places to share lunch, love and conversations.  Children and grandparents will spend a little time together simply existing and finding happiness from those priceless moments.  We have transportation to bring us together, and telephones and computer messages for those who cannot be present physically.  Bonds are strengthened just by slightest efforts.  The food we share will sustain us, nourish us and (in some instances) entertain us.  We are Blessed.

In the afternoon, the freedom of our particular Sunday allows time to watch football games, browse local flea markets, work in the artist’s studio and play catch up at the business next at home, by choice and not by instruction.  We can wander across the wooded grounds of our home with only birds, squirrels, random neighborhood cats and dogs, to drop in unexpectedly and without harm.  (I am happy to say the neighborhood skunk who chose to sleep at my back door Friday night has moseyed back to the woods.)  My family is safe from harm.  For the many factors that contribute to that safety, we are Blessed.

For family and friends.  For the opportunities laid before us.  For the chance to recognize those opportunities before they pass and to seize them for best advantage.  For the talents inside us and the discovery and development of those talents.  For the good health and physical well-being to be able to enjoy all of our Blessings.  I am Blessed.  For these Blessings, I will SHINE to the best of my ability and try to bring just a little brightness to the lives I may touch in passing.

Thank you, God, for this Day.  Amen.

Say Thank You.

If you have received, then give thanks.  From a simple prayer of Thanks for God’s Blessings to a considerate Thank You to anyone who shares kindness with you.  For an opened door to enter a building to an opened door to a new adventure, if there was a gesture of assistance, say Thank You.

Before you ask for something, be sure you have acknowledged gifts, tangible and intangible, with Thanks.  Before you dwell on what you want or what you think you need, count your Blessings and give Thanks.  A roof over your head, food to eat, good health, clothing and protection from elements and harm – all are blessings for which you can celebrate with Thanksgiving.