Your Logittude is affected by your personal filters. Like the “frame of reference” of the standard model of communication, your filters are those intangible feelings, attitudes, impressions and knowledge that you bring with you into the moment. Typically, you are blissfully unaware that you are a carrier of these elements, but there is no escaping these clinging, moment-altering aspects of you.
You bring with you all of your interpersonal encounters, your emotional states and memories of settings and situations in your past and your current preconceived expectations of the moment. Anticipation of pleasure or conflict or confusion from lack of knowledge all affect the moment you are entering.
To approach Logittude spend a little effort at examining your filters in general. Do you carry with you lessons from your childhood on how to react and behave? Do you practice consideration for others or evaluation of yourself already? Did you have a big family that interacted well or not-so-well that still influences how you approach other people and situations? Are you receptive to other attititudes and opinions contrary to your own? Do you have any clues about why you may be shy or outgoing? This list is unlimited and the answers may continue to astound you once you get going.